Category Archives: What to Divorce When You Are Divorcing

There may be a right way to move forward and a wrong way to move forward after your marriage ends.  But there is no […]

There is one thing all women who fail to move on after their marriage ends have in common.   They are all really good at […]

Autobiography In Five Short Chapters by Portia Nelson is a popular text in self-help, recovery and addiction programs.   The following is an adapted version […]

Naikan is a Japanese method of self-reflection.   I have found it to be very helpful in broadening my perspective and in enriching my relationship […]

What are some of the things — despite your separation and divorce — that you are most grateful for?   Make a list of at […]

Guess what?  You are stronger than you think you are.   This may come as a surprise to you but you have what it takes […]

Mistakes were made.  Words were said that should not have been said.  Promises were broken.  Lies were told.  Arguments were started.  Discussions were ended.   […]

Decisions. Decisions. Decisions.   The quality of your post-marital life will be in direct proportion to the number of decisions you make.  And the tougher […]

You can’t stand still and move forward at the same time.  That’s why “take action” is the advice I offer women whenever they ask […]

Hopelessness happens. During your separation and divorce you will undoubtedly confront disappointment and moments when everything goes wrong and nothing seems to turn out […]