I am going to assume that when you married your ex/spouse you never thought it would end in divorce. The truth is you could not predict what the future held before you got married and you won’t be able to do so after your divorce is finalized.
That’s why I refuse to listen to women talk about what they believe will never happen after their marriage ends.
I am never going to get married again. I am never going to trust a man again. I am never going to let myself get hurt again. I am never going to fall in love again. I will never be happy again. I will never stop hurting.
Every time you use the word never you are slamming the door in the face of new possibilities. You have to trust and believe that your life after divorce will be filled with good and wonderful things. Otherwise you won’t be willing to do what needs to be done to move forward.
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