- Bad mouthing the opposing parent in the presence of your children.
- Questioning your children about what goes on during their time with the opposing parent.
- Making your children feel guilty about spending time with the opposing parent.
- Discussing the details of your custody case with your children.
- Arguing with the opposing parent in the presence of your minor children.
- Making false claims about the opposing parent to your children.
- Using your children as a pawn to manipulate the opposing parent.
- Using your children as a pawn to punish the opposing parent.
- Sending messages to the opposing parent through your children.
- Listening on the phone while your child is speaking with the opposing parent.
- Undermining the opposing parent’s authority as a parent.
- Allowing other adults to bad mouth the opposing parent in the presence of your children.
- Denying the opposing party reasonable access to your children when they are in your care
- Making unreasonable intrusions on the time the opposing parent is spending with your children.
- Refusing to co-parent with the opposing parent.
- Allowing your children to bad mouth the opposing parent.
- Allowing your children to disrespect the opposing parent.
- Allowing your children to decide when and if they will visit with the opposing parent.
- Consulting with your children on adult matters.
- Trying to buy your children’s love, affection and loyalty.
- Allowing your new spouse/friend to take the place of the opposing parent.
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